HI GUYS, in the previous part we talked about the factors so many married people know about, the rules states that “don’t people the way...
HI GUYS, in the previous part we talked about the factors so many married people know about, the rules states that “don’t people the way you don’t want to be treated”.
And this has divided human beings into 4 personality types, we have:
- The intimidating spouse:
This category of people speaks with command/DO voice, most of the time.
They are the kind of spouse that believes in rules and regulations, he lays down the rule.
So if you have an intimidating spouse as a wife, you might feel offended as a man, and even if you don’t feel offended, the people around you will feel offended because they will say your wife is commanding you.
But you see when it comes to relationship, it’s strictly about understanding people, when you understand people, you know what to expect and what they are doing will no longer get to you.
So if you have an intimidating spouse, who is well organized, well structured, they have a high work rate, they want to work all the time, as a matter of fact the #1 thing on their agenda is WORK, #2 thing is WORK and then number 3 thing is relationship.
When you have that kind of man and you are always feeling bad.
You have that kind of woman, she might feel irritated and not get into the kitchen, how do you cope with that?
Now, these are thing we could have understood from courtship, that we fail to look into and now you’re asking yourself “can I relate with people like this?”
However, another mistake we make most times is that, “we never try to accept people for who they are, we try to turn them to who we want them to be”.
That doesn’t always work.
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